The Silent Treatment

Has anyone ever given you ‘The Silent Treatment ‘?

This occurs when someone is angry with you, but they won’t tell you why ! Perhaps you have also been tempted to give someone The Silent Treatment, instead of assertively telling them what they have done to offend you.

Giving someone The Silent Treatment , also called Stonewalling, is ineffective. It is a type of passive-aggressive behaviour, and can also be a form of emotional abuse. Please, assertively tell people when they have done something to offend you. Communicate carefully to resolve your differences. Relationships are precious !

I occasionally take entire days to spend in silence. My husband, however , knows that I do this because I love silence, and I become more sensitive to the Holy Spirit when I am silent. But I always tell him in advance when I am taking a silent day. He knows it is nothing personal !

On a recent silent day, in the garden, I noticed, in a corner , some daisies I had not planted. God had decided that those plants would grow in the rocky area. I thought of 1 Peter 1:24 :

‘All flesh is like grass, and all its glory like the flower of grass. The grass withers, and the flower falls, but the word of the Lord abides forever.’

Life is fleeting, and our friends and family are God’s gifts to us. Let us ask God for the grace to be effective communicators. Let us avoid giving others ‘ The Silent Treatment .’

16 thoughts on “The Silent Treatment

  1. โ™ก I Agree EveryOne; yet to not give someone Linear Time is Dictatorial, go figure ๐Ÿค” ?

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

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  2. ON DUMB DICTATORS

    โ—‡ I AM Diamond Hard like a Child and HATE!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜  AUTHORITY!!! EveryOne; that’s why I AM Single ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON FAULT FINDING AND BLAME

    โ™ก Reliance on Others for Happiness is Folly EveryOne; connecting with Others who don’t always do what You WANT!!! ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜  is TRICKY!!! so what’s The Trick ๐Ÿค” ? The Trick is TeamWork – ‘When Love Takes Over’ ~ David Guetta feat. Kelly Rowland

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON INTERACTING

    โ™ก I Don’t Like People Very Much EveryOne, yet I Love ALL of You; however:

    โ™ง Rage
    โ™ค Anxiety
    โ™ก Depression

    …et al Saddens Me and Gets The Better of YOU!!! because YOU ARE!!! far too Ashamed, Guilty and Embarrassed to Admit, Acknowledge And Address YOUR!!! MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) due to STIGMA!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฃ ; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Diamond Hard, Carbon Forged in Fires of Adversity in to Curated Crystalline…what ARE You Doing to Manage Your Fury, Deep Sadness, Concerns About The Future; what ARE You Doing EveryOne ๐Ÿค” ?

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON SUMMING UP “NARCISSISM”

    ARE You A “Narcissistic” ๐Ÿค” ? If You Don’t Know here is a Quick Checklist:

    โ™ก If in Conflict do I Argue or Debate ๐Ÿค” ?
    โ™ก When things don’t go My Way is it The Highway ๐Ÿค” ?
    โ™ก Do I Cry After Arguments ๐Ÿค” ?

    …please Feel Free to Follow Up with Any Questions; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Divorced Simply for Stating My Opinion and NOT!!! even Vaguely Instructing let alone Ordering…Accountability and Responsibility ARE what is Missing from those who throw The Stones of “Narcissism” at Others; please THINK!!! about “Narcissism” before Accusing Others ๐Ÿค” ? “Because that Stone You Are Throwing at Me Better Hit Me; because I Have a Rock for You.”

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON FRIENDSHIP

    โ—‡ Diamond Hard

    โ™ก The Beauty of Rugby (The Game Played in Heaven on Earth EveryOne) is a Pure Childlike Quality; basically I Get to HURT PEOPLE!!! then I Revel with Drink and Food in Their Company Afterwards

    โ™ง The Right to be Wrong is a Right; if You Don’t Get This Simple yet Complex Truth then FUCK OFF!!!

    โ™ค I AM Therefore I THINK!!! I AM; if You Don’t Like Me FUCK OFF!!!

    โ™ก I LOVE You ALL; yet many of You I Don’t Like at ALL and those of You I Don’t Like can FUCK OFF!!! until You Give Me Reason to Like You

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON INTERACTING

    Don’t Like People Very Much; Love ALL of You, yet:

    โ™ง Rage
    โ™ค Anxiety
    โ™ก Depression

    …Get The Better of YOU!!! because YOU ARE!!! too Embarrassed to Admit, Acknowledge And Address YOUR!!! MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues); Diamond Hard…

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON 3DLIFE PURPOSE

    โ™ง There’s NOTHING!!! Wrong with Pursuing Money and Materialism EveryOne; just be careful what you wish for EveryOne, You May just get it and Wish You Had Taken a Different Path

    …โ™งโ™งโ™ง…

    ON MEAN, MONEY GRUBBING MATERIALISM

    โ—‡ Your THOUGHTS!!! Please EveryOne; don’t be shy now ๐Ÿค” ? ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON FATTY SHAMING

    โ™ง So, a Big Shout Out to ALL of You ‘Weight Loss Products and Services’ Snake Oil Peddlers Out There; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Core Strength is More than Enough to Carry Any Body Weight so Shame on You for Selling on The Back of what is a Reprehensible View of Weight and Fat, Financially Feeding on Lack of Self Esteem and Low Confidence…so Bad for Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships; so SMH (Shaking My Head) in Embarrassment for Being a Fellow Human Being with those Conditioned to be so MisGuided

    …โ™งโ™งโ™ง…

    ON YOU

    โ—‡ So, if a Partner is Present just how ARE they treated by yourself; honest answers only please ๐Ÿค” ?

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON BLAME

    โ—‡ I AM DIAMOND HARD; so I KNOW!!! there is No ‘I’ or ‘U’ in ‘Team’; so if Blaming Others then Please Leave The Team Alone and Find Your Own Way ๐Ÿค” ?

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON COWARDLY AKA THE FAKE, FALSE, FRAUDULENT, FURIOUS, RAGING INAUTHENTICS AMONGST US ALL

    โ—‡ I AM Diamond Hard and Fortunate Enough to Possess a Powerful Intellect along with Kind, Caring, Compassionate Emotions aka High EQ (Emotional Quotient) and High IQ (Intellectual Quotient); it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Many of Us ARE Emotional and/or Intellectual Cowards…if Confronted by a ‘Troll’, ‘Negative’, ‘Argumentative’ et al Person I ALWAYS!!! Ask MySelf about My Contribution to This Less Than Ideal PsychoDynamic and then the Answer I Get is ALWAYS!!! The Same; INCOMPATIBILITY!!!…when We Get This Simple yet Complex Truth We KNOW!!! who to AVOID!!! and How to Get Them Get Rid of Us, who to TRUST!!! and who to Regularly Contact even if The Communication is InFrequent; which is Very, Very, Very Good for ALL of Our Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Our Personal Relationships

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON HAIKU

    โ™ก ‘Your Fault!!!’

    The Blame Game goes Something Like This
    She: “You ARE a NARCISSIST!!!”
    Me: “Maybe I AM; I AM Certainly a Mirror Miss.”

    …External/Internal Protection, CHOICE!!! then We RISE!!! or FALL!!! where ARE!!! You; here, there or nowhere ๐Ÿค” ?

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    โ™ก There is NEVER!!! a ‘Wasted Moment’ EveryOne, Every Moment is “Productive”; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Every CHOICE!!! and DECISION!!! is RIGHT!!! ๐Ÿค“

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON TIME

    โ™ค Listen to Your Future Self EveryOne; it’s SeamLess…Linear Time Lines ARE Actually Quite EASY!!! to Navigate ๐Ÿ˜€ ; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that it’s Our MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) from Conditioned Upbringing and Rotten, Stinking THINKING!!! that GET IN THE WAY!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜–๐Ÿ˜ง๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ 

    …โ™คโ™คโ™ค…

    โ™ก Interesting Contradiction in Terms from Many People; Labelling ‘intelligent’ persons as ‘stupid’ is Projection and Reflection…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Divorced because My Former Wife Considers Me ‘stupid’ and that’s OK; She has Every Right to Do So

    โ™ก Typical Relationship Conversation; goes something like this:

    โ—‡ Girl – “It wasn’t like that!!!”
    โ™ค Boy – “Yes it was; here’s proof.”
    โ™ง Girl – “FUCK OFF AND NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN!!!”

    …remember Boys an Authentic, Genuine, Honest Lady is Worth Her Weight in WhatEver She Weighs; so Wait For Her, which is Very Good for Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships…

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON SCAR STORIES

    โ—‡ I Have Scars and I AM NOT Ashamed of Them; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that My Scars Remind Me I Have Lived, I AM Living and Continue to Live

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON TRUSTING

    โ—‡ I Trust In Me EveryOne; I Have Faith In Me, UnShakeable Conviction that I Have a Right To Be Here and I AM Right in EveryThing I THINK!!! Say and Do Even when I THINK!!! it’s WRONG!!! Seamless …

    โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON 3DLIVING

    โ™ก Miserable People often Deny Complaining with “I HAVE A LIFE!!!” then Go On Describing Their Living Arrangements & LifeStyles with which They ARE Clearly Very UnHappy; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity We ARE Our 3DLife NOT!!! the Money, Materialism and Relationships that Surround Us…

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON MMHI (MULTIPLE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES)

    โ—‡ Roaring Rage=Really Resentful; Please Calm Down
    โ—‡ Angst Anxiety=Acutely Apprehensive; It May NEVER!!! Happen
    โ—‡ Deep Depression=Death Desire; Please Stay Alive

    …I AM Forged and Hardened in The Fires of MMHI; I AM Also Water Soft which is Very, Very, Very Good for Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships…

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON EDUCATION AND EXPERIENCING

    โ—‡ Parents Educate
    โ—‡ Teachers/Lecturers/Professors Educate
    โ—‡ Experience Educates

    …I Experience without Being Educated by Sitting In Silence; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Experience is an Educator if I CHOOSE!!! to Actively Listen EveryOne…

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON SOLVING

    โ™ก ALL Problems have Solutions; if I Perceive Problems I SEEK!!! Solutions rather than Dwell on PROBLEMS!!! however long it takes…clearly My Mental Health plays a part here; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Admit, Acknowledge And Address My MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues)

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON GREED AND AVARICE

    โ™ค Lack=Less than I Perceive I NEED!!!
    โ™ก Enough=Exactly what I NEED!!!
    โ™ง Abundance=More than I NEED!!!

    …so why; why ๐Ÿค” ?…

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON SENSING DIAMOND HARD

    โ—‡ 1. Etheric (SIXTH SENSE!!!)
    โ—‡ 2. Touch (RECOIL!!!)
    โ—‡ 3. Hearing (LOUD NOISES!!!)
    โ—‡ 4. Sight (DON’T LOOK!!!)
    โ—‡ 5. Taste (SPIT IT OUT!!!)
    โ—‡ 6. Smell (FOLLOW OUR NOSE!!!)

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON THE MEANING OF 3DLIFE

    โ—‡ Ingest, Digest, Absorb, Excrete
    โ™ก Manage Psychological State
    โ™ง Follow Rules and Regulations or Rebel

    …โ™คโ™คโ™ค…

    ON LEADERSHIP

    โ—‡ One of My Favourite Poems about Diamond Hard; the Reality of Inflexible ‘Leading’:

    I wanna be the leader
    I wanna be the leader
    I wanna be the leader

    I AM The Leader!!!
    I AM The Leader!!!
    I AM The Leader!!!

    What do we do now?
    What do we do now?
    What do we do now?

    …be careful what is wished for everyone; it may manifest when least expected…

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON RAGE MANAGEMENT WHETHER RAGE BE BLUE (SILENCE) OR REALLY RED (LOUD)

    โ™ก Since Accomplishing Management and Control of My ANGER!!! ๐Ÿ˜  EveryOne I Haven’t Hurt MySelf or AnyOne Else Since; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Have Been a bit Clumsy in My Small, Single Living Space and Grazed and Lacerated MySelf on a Number of Different Occasions ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š …so what’s The The Solution to This Stress and Pressure ANGER, RAGE!!! ๐Ÿ˜–๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜  Problem; because, Clearly, a Problem is a Solution in Waiting ๐Ÿค“ …but what if The Problem is Too Difficult, Too Big, to Face Right Now; it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity to Me that I Wait for The Solution to Present ItSelf in Divine Timing ๐Ÿ˜‡ …the Maiming and Harming of Others is Diamond Hard EveryOne; it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that Water is Soft and Yielding, gradually, persistently and, sometimes, INSTANTLY HARD!!! like Tsunamis or Floods; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Gaia KNOWS!!! and We Should ALL Pay Attention to what Really Matters ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿค—

    โ—‡ Our Moods EveryOne; the sooner We Comprehend That Simple yet Complex Truth The Better ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿค—

    โ™ก Personally I AM More about Effort; like watching The Fat Girl Completing a 100m Sprint in 30 Seconds Impresses Me More than Usain Bolt…

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…
    …โ™งโ™งโ™ง ..
    …โ™คโ™คโ™ค…
    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON INTERNAL ENLIGHTENMENT

    โ—‡ I AM Aware that EveryThing and EveryOne ARE Connected at SubAtomic Levels that Some Call Goddess/Allah/God/Divine and So On; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Many Others ARE Asleep on Their Journey to Being Awake, Aware and Alert thereby Rediscovering Paying Attention like Children…so; ARE You Paying Attention to ALL The Signs, Signals, Synchronicities, Pointers and Guidelines that ARE There for The One and Only You or ARE You Distracted by ‘IMPORTANT GROWN UP STUFF!!!’ ๐Ÿค” ?…

    …โ™งโ™คโ™ก…

    ON HAIKU

    โ—‡ Authentically Moving On

    Some Stuff Stays
    Some Stuff Goes
    Some Stuff Arrives

    …I Suggest Be Still on The Beach of 3DLife as The Time Tide Ebbs and Flows; a Tide that Laps at Our Feet Bringing Bits of The Puzzle To Us without showing the Big Picture until The Time Tidal Wave Arrives and We ARE Overwhelmed by Our ‘Success’ or ‘Failure’…a piece of Carbon under Stress, Pressure and Heat becomes Diamond Hard; when We Remember that We Can Painfully Produce Personalised Crystals InSide Our Bodies and Our Childlike Perception of ‘Magic’ Returns ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿค—

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON CARBONITE TO CRYSTALLINE

    โ—‡ I Prefer to Be Coal on The Beach of Our 3DLiving as The Tides of Time bring Me Stuff EveryOne; then The Stress and Pressure of 3DLife Metamorphoses Me in to a Diamond

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

    โ™ก I NEVER!!! ‘Move On’ EveryOne; it’s for You to Decide to Quit Communication with Me ForEver ๐Ÿค“ …I Totally Believe that ‘Trust’ CAN!!! be Re-Built ๐Ÿ˜€ ; it’s a Question of Building Boundaries then Gently ๐Ÿ˜Ž , if necessary Aggressively ๐Ÿ˜ก , Asserting These Built Boundaries ๐Ÿ™„ …in summary; please take Accountability and Responsibility for Your FUCKING FEELINGS INSTEAD OF BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE!!! ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON RELIGION, MONEY AND MATERIALISM

    โ™ก A Religious Lady, She KNOWS!!! who SHE IS!!! and, as a Gentleman, I CHOOSE!!! to NOT!!! Name Her, deleted My Lengthy Diatribe on The Relationship The Religious Have with “Mammon” then blocked Me…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that She Claimed You NEED!!! to “Spend Money to Make Money” and I DisAgreed with “Isn’t that just “Mammon””; the MisManagement of Money as My Marvellous Mom, who is Devoutly Religious, explained when I Asked about Money Being “The Root of ALL Evil”…at least My Marvellous Mom is Genuine, Authentic and Honest about Her Biblical Perception of Money and Proud of Jesus for “Chasing The Money Changers” Out of The Temple of Her God along with Their “Greed and Avarice” and Me NOT!!! even Remotely Religious even though I Was Force Fed The Bible ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š …so just Two Words to Conclude this Treatise; The Vatican ๐Ÿ˜‡

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON TEMPER; FURIOUS AND CALM

    โ™ก There is SomeThing about OUR Sun, OUR Star, Bathing Gaia, Our Planet, with Radical Radiation EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We Are Drawn to The Dawn that We Call SunRise and The Dusk that We Call SunSet yet The Sun is ALWAYS!!! There…how Fortunate, Blessed, Privileged et al ARE We to Have The Sun; yet We Whinge, Whine, Moan and Bitch about Money, Materialism and Our So Called Relationships…it’s so Crystal Clear Clarity that RAGE!!! is The Order of The Day; like Smiling Sweetly then Turning On A Dime and Snarling…now, please, don’t get Me Wrong; there is NOTHING!!! Wrong with Showing ‘Negative’ Emotion then Taking Time to Calm The FUCK!!! Down yet EveryThing Wrong with TAKING RAGE AND FURY OUT!!! On Others; ummm, I AM Very Badly Cooking a MeatLoaf Right Now and Grateful I Don’t Have a Wife who would be a Flea In My Ear and TELLING ME OFF!!! for ‘DOING IT ALL FUCKING WRONG!!!’ ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON SUICIDE

    โ™ก Please do not be in a rush to die; death is a release and 3DLife is a prison with the key on the floor that we don’t observe until we sink to our knees and release ourselves…stress, pressure, diamond hard ladies; especially Moms..money driven gents; power hungry and fragile, where is the love ๐Ÿค” ? love perceived as weakness yet I am weak and I love yet if you come at me with your anger be prepared to die and return to bliss because I am ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿค— …

    โ—‡ Just make sure You ARE Doing what You Want To Do and NOT!!! just Paying Bills; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that 3DLife is Best Be LIVED!!! even if it’s On The Streets, Homeless and Poor…

    โ™ค Funny Really and NOT!!! in a Good Way; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We Seem to Have OCD (Occupational DisOrder Complex) around Money and Materialism ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š

    …โ™งโ™งโ™ง…

    ON COMMUNICATION

    I Have Recently been TOLD OFF!!! by My Mom and Other Ladies of a Certain Age and Religion for Swearing and Cursing while KNOWING!!! They Curse and Swear Under Their Breath; many a Board, Other or Cabinet Meeting Turns The Air True Blue ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š …funny really how Hypocritical We ARE; sad too in the context of Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships…I AM a Writer; I WILL NOT!!! Be Censored ๐Ÿค“ …

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON AIMING

    โ™ง So what’s WRONG!!! ๐Ÿ˜  with Our World EveryOne ๐Ÿค” ? it’s Crystal Clear Clarity to Me that We AIM Our Rage ๐Ÿ˜  at THE WRONG FUCKING PEOPLE!!! who DO NOT DESERVE!!! Such Treatment ๐Ÿ˜” ; then We Deny, Defend, Justify and ATTACK!!! ALL The While Weeping over Our InSane InAbility to Confront Our Parents and Other Authority ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ญ

    …โ™งโ™งโ™ง…

    ON LANGUAGE

    There is a Subtle Difference betwix ‘Can’ and ‘Able’ (Cain and Abel ๐Ÿค” ?); in prรฉcรฌs:

    โ™ค ‘Can’ is The Capacity ALL Homo Sapiens Possess
    โ™ค ‘Able’ is The Capacity We Develop in to Ability
    โ™ค Ergo ‘I Can’ and ‘I AM Able’ ARE Different

    …so, for example; I Can:

    โ™ก Climb – Basic Ability
    โ™ก Cook – Intermediate Ability
    โ™ก Create – Advanced Ability
    โ™ก Clean – Intermediate Ability
    โ™ก Curate – Basic Ability
    โ™ก Communicate – Advanced Ability

    …please Take Time to THINK!!! about ‘I AM Able’ vs ‘I Can’ and why We Take Our CHOICES!!! to Develop Certain Capacity and Shy Away from Other Capacity; ask anything especially around ENVY AND JEALOUSY ๐Ÿ˜–๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ !!! please…

    โ™ก Look in The 3DLife Mirror EveryOne because there ARE Your Answers; Your Answers ARE in Your Questions about Others, The Monster InSide The Mirror

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON GAH!!! (GENUINE AUTHENTIC HONEST WITH THE EXCLAMATION MARKS REPRESENTING THE FRUSTRATION OF FFF (FAKE, FALSE, FRAUDULENT))

    โ—‡ So, do We Zip Lips or Tell It as We SEE (Soulful Emotional Energy) It; feedback MOST WELCOME!!! but You ARE ALL too Cowardly and that’s OK ๐Ÿค” ?…

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON ‘LIFE COACHING’ AND HEALING

    โ™ค We ARE UnAble to Heal or Coach Directly EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that ALL We May Do is Hold Space (which is ONLY POSSIBLE if We OurSelves ARE Healed) while Others Remember How to Coach and Heal ThemSelves…if AnyOne is THINKING!!! OtherWise it is Ice Cold FOOLISHNESS!!! which is Very, Very, Very Bad for Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships; so THOUGHTS!!! EveryOne ๐Ÿค” ?…

    …โ™คโ™คโ™ค…

    ON HEALING

    โ™ก So You ARE Hurting, in PAIN!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฃ yet You Trust Doctors and Psychiatrists, No DisRepect to Doctors and Psychiatrists, and The Financial Pursuits of Pharma ๐Ÿค‘ ; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We ALL Have a Wonderful Thing in Our Amazing AutoImmune System…the AutoImmune System is Very, Very, Very Good for Our Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships; donch’ya THINK!!! ๐Ÿค” ?…

    …โ™กโ™กโ™ก…

    ON BLAME, GUILT AND FAULT FINDING

    โ—‡ Diamond Hard in the Abscence of Sycophants and Worshippers is IDEAL!!!; so I AM a Failure and You ARE Blaming And Accusing Me, do You NOT!!! SEE (Soulful Emotional Energy) The Mirror that is You ๐Ÿค” ? it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that recognising self is very, very, very good for Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships mayhap, perhaps or NOT!!!! what do You THINK!!! ๐Ÿค” ?

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON LADIES IN MY LIFE – PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE

    I AM Divorced EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We Could Have Had an Angst Free, Amazing, Awesome Marriage and A Great People Focused Business…so, Girls, I Wonder; for The Record ARE You A:

    โ™ก 1. Bitch Witch
    โ™ก 2. ‘Fitch’ Witch
    โ™ก 3. ‘Me, You and DuPree’ Witch

    …as a Bad Boy My Preference is 3; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Hate Being Told What To Do…yet, Puzzling, I Don’t Mind Doing What I AM Told To Do if I LIKE IT!!!; so GO FIGURE!!! She says “I AM OVER YOU!!! I Wish You Well and NEVER EVER!!! Speak with Me Again!!!” then She Surreptitiously Stalks Me ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Š , hmmm; now, You ARE Asking just what does this have To Do with Our Creative/Sporting/Business Practices and Personal Relationships, so I Answer, Figure it Out EveryOne ๐Ÿค” ?…

    โ—‡ Diamond Hard, I THINK!!! that Being Christian is Complicated; for example Forgiveness is a Tough Task, as for Being Kind Ask The Christian Crusaders under The Tutelage of King Richard or The Catholics, Pretty Brutal Versions of Christianity don’cha’yall THINK!!! ?

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

    ON BLAME, GUILT AND FAULT FINDING

    โ—‡ Diamond Hard; so I AM a Failure and You ARE Blaming Me, do You NOT!!! SEE (Soulful Emotional Energy) The Mirror that is You ๐Ÿค” ?

    …โ—‡โ—‡โ—‡…

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  3. Unfortunately, the silent treatment occurs a lot in marriage which can eventually leads to breakup. It is good that you and your husband have an understanding. This is the key. The flowers are lovely.

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  4. I’ve been busy so I was silent and just read this finding it very nicely explained. When I looked to see what others had to say I found that a few things that came to mind immediately that I was going to say had been mentioned already so I almost went silent. But, at last another thought came to my mind which is to say that whenever I’ve had very quiet time alone it allows me to reflect much more and better than any other time. So, to me it usually becomes what I think of as soul searching time, which we all need, to put things in our lives into perspective and perhaps to see or realize something important we overlooked in the frenzy at times of modern living! I see it as catching up and even catching your breath, giving us the opportunity to adjust or realign ourselves with the things that are most important to us, whatever they may be.
    Thanks for the reminder.
    Lawrence

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  5. My latest post regarding rebels wasn’t completed until this morning and now I can see how the bulk of what I wrote does again dovetail with your writing here in that being reflective and quiet is the opening up of our souls to the Holy Spirit at its best and that is when the right thoughts and words seem to pour out! If you get a moment see what you think and I’m always open to any input, yes even criticism!
    Fellow Blogger in Christ,
    Lawrence

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